Once A Cheater......

always a cheater???
i dont think so
but thats just how i see things.

Just because someone cheated before doesnt mean they will again, depending on their mindset at that time, what they were going thru at that time, and how the relationship was all depends on why they cheated. and people change. NOW, i'm not saying that you should trust everyone who has cheated before because some people are just cheaters to the core. but i am saying, dont condemn someone because of past mistakes.
would you want them to do that to you??

and just because they cheated with you doesnt mean they'll cheat on you... even though its a much bigger chance that they will, doesnt mean they definitely will.
so trust your gut, if you're wishy washy on the subject, give it a go & see how things turn out. if the worst happens then its a lesson learned & just another chapter done in your book of life.

thats how i see it
In A NutShell

Till Next Time
XOXO
SayyDeeGee

When Did It Become Okay?

so I was just thinking, when did it become okay for somebody to treat someone else wrongly? when did it become okay for someone who you trust to screw you over? why is it that females in general are constantly taken advantage of for just wanting to find love? granted guys get screwed over too sometimes, but not nearly as much as girls do. because us girls (for the most part) really just want to find somebody...we arent trying to talk to 4 other dudes and lead you on, nor are we trying to just have you be another notch in our belts. and I think guys know this, which is why they know exactly how to play us, exactly what we want to hear, and exactly what buttons to push to make our knees weak; or to make us think that they're really good guys. when realistically they're just assholes with a nice guy exterior.

now, this is NOT just a 'rip on the male species' entry, cuz i know some guys that are really genuinely good guys, and it sucks for them because there are so many douche-bags in the world that give every other guy such a bad name. Guys in general are like Pit-Bulls in general. alot of them are sweethearts, but the percentage of them that are ruthless, no good, assholes, ruin it for the rest of them & give the rest of them a bad name. so (just like pit bulls) guys are NOT all the same. so before someone says that they are, they should try to talk to every guy on the planet... good luck with that one...

MOST IMPORTANTLY when did it become okay to group people as all bad or as all anything. like, all Asians are smart, or cant drive...and all black people are ghetto. or all Gay people have aids. thats wrong and hurtful. because if those things are said in a rude and malicious way then it can be very hurtful, and didnt your Mother ever tell you to treat others how you want to be treated??

now, in no way am I a Saint. i dont try to be & i'm not trying to make myself out to be anything but what I am. (which is clearly not a saint) but i just dont like to see people hurt in any way.

if you want to refute anything i said feel free to hit me up & say whatever you feel like, i'm open to seeing more points of view....

but, thats just how i see things
In A NutShell

xoxo
SayyDeeGee

Human Cadavers

i LOVE reading. & right now I'm reading this book called
Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers ;; By: Mary Roach
&& its REALLY interesting!
it talks about everything you could ever want to know about cadavers (if you're into that kinda stuff) it goes through the history of how it got started, what they do now, how bodies decompose & SO much more.

For my Massage School curriculum we went to the Cadaver Lab at UNLV to study the bones, muscles, & overall human body (because if you're hiring a massage therapist you want them to know EXACTLY what they're touching) & i got SUPER interested in cadavers and just the human body in general.

So I thought I'd share with you all

Until Next Time
xoxo
SayyDeeGee

Literotica

It was the stroke of midnight, the only light that shown in her bedroom was that of the full moon shining through her gaping window. She had been waiting for him for countless minutes, in her white lace lingere that hugged all of her beautiful curves so gently. Suddenly she heard the latch on the door & her heartbeat quickened. Footsteps coming up the stairs, she adjusted her position on the bed to look more appealing. The bedroom door swung open; there he stood with a dozen red roses. When he saw her he threw them down and began to take off his tie. She walked over to him & kissed his lips ever so gently. He leaned down to kiss the nape of her neck as he placed his hands on her waist. She unbuckled his belt & slid off his pants as his kisses left a trail going down her chest...

should i continue??

The Knot Prayer

iLove this prayer. I heard it first the other day & I had to look it up, thought I'd share with anyone who cares about my blog. lol here you go


Dear God

Please untie the knots that are in my mind,
my heart and my life.
Remove the have nots,
the can nots and the do nots
that I have in my mind.
Erase the will nots,
may nots,
might nots that may find a home in my heart.
Release me from the could nots,
would nots
and should nots that obstruct my life.
And most of all,
Dear God,
I ask that you remove from my mind,
my heart and my life all of the "am nots"
that I have allowed to hold me back,
especially the thought that I am not good enough.

Amen